What is a sensate‑focus exercise?

A sensate‑focus exercise is a structured intimacy practice where partners take turns exploring touch and physical connection without the expectation of sexual performance or orgasm. The focus is on noticing sensations, giving feedback, and rating pleasure, which helps partners become more present and attuned to each other’s responses. This exercise builds emotional closeness, reduces performance anxiety, and strengthens overall intimacy by shifting attention from outcomes to the experience of connection.

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